backyard playdates…it appears we are making friends here

by sesame on January 15, 2010


we have a little playdate co-op going with some school friends of gemma over the school holidays.  they spend a day together at each different house on a rotating schedule.  the kids have fun and the parents get a break.

you know what, i think i have gotten more out of it than the kids have.

gemma spent today with her buddy, lilly.

i spent the day with my buddies, the twins and the computer.  i had big plans to finish editing a commercial job that i have due.  i figured the morning nap time would be just long enough since i did not have to entertain gemma.  i did not plan on the gardener at a house very close by spending 45 minutes loudly trimming a hedge.  for all the gardener’s carrying on, i expected to see some bushes sheared into the shape of the NYC skyline in the neighbor’s yard.

nope, all i got were 2 very awake and very grumpy babies and 2/3 of my job done.

tonight i had 2 very tired babies who needed a bath and a five year old who needed to come home.

not only did gemma get a ride home, but she came with roses in hand.  and her friend’s mom…wait, let me rephrase that, my friend…my friend brought me a bottle of red.  thank you!  THANK YOU!

a little under 2 years living here and we are building our own little community.

i never really knew what to expect as an expat…i still don’t.  new things come up all the time and sometimes i do not realize something was an issue until it gets resolved.

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Leah January 15, 2010 at 12:14 pm

nothing like a day that doesn't go to plan! The photos on this page are just gorgeous…

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jessica January 15, 2010 at 12:31 pm

i so relate to this post.
glad you are finding your place and your people.

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Gemma Schipani January 15, 2010 at 12:53 pm

Love the new header photo! Those chicken & frogs brilliant!

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megan January 15, 2010 at 1:02 pm

Love the photos…..not the evil gardener

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Robin January 15, 2010 at 1:04 pm

Wow, came across this on twitter…the header photo is just amazing!

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Holly Fish January 15, 2010 at 1:22 pm

I hate it when the yardmen wake the babies! So not worth it!

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Tarnya January 15, 2010 at 2:02 pm

Glad you are starting to feel settled here Rachel. We Aussies can be quite nice when you get to know us ;) And I can't believe it's been almost two years! Time flies…….

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Becca January 15, 2010 at 2:03 pm

Those photos are gorgeous!

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DawnK January 15, 2010 at 3:55 pm

What a nice end to the day! I read somewhere once that it takes 2 years to get totally accustomed to a new place. That seems like a long time, but when I've moved, I think it's taken about that much time to get used to a new place and be comfortable with new friends, and all that stuff. Sorry that the twins were interrupted by the hedge trimmer. I would have been fuming, too.

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kerith January 15, 2010 at 6:00 pm

Nothing makes a friend like a bottle of wine! (heehee) Enjoy. There is not a doubt in my mind that your commercial job will be completed AHEAD of schedule.

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tabby January 15, 2010 at 7:39 pm

oh and you also need to put the party pictures up please!! I dont think i saw them. maybe I missed them.

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sesameellis January 15, 2010 at 9:11 pm

still no time to do that…have too many jobs i am editing.

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Kate January 15, 2010 at 9:55 pm

A friend with mead is a friend indeed. (corny i know, but that's me!)
Glad you've got a little community building around you. Very nice and very important to your little family.

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sesameellis January 15, 2010 at 10:15 pm

thanks kate. and thanks for being a part of that community (even if you are not in the neighborhood)!

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victoria67 January 15, 2010 at 11:23 pm

a rotating playdate schedule-what a great idea! glad to hear you are finally settling in down under :)

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Virginia Peach January 16, 2010 at 5:25 am

I can completely relate to this. If it weren't for having a baby and joining the local mums' club where we rotate a weekly playgroup around all our houses, I wouldn't know anyone at all. I went out for coffee with another one of the mums last week and got quite emotional about it afterwards when I got home as I suddenly realised that after being out here for 16 months, I finally can call someone a friend. Someone whom I've met all by myself, not through my husband.

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sesameellis January 16, 2010 at 9:51 am

it is a funny topic…something i want to explore more now that i am no longer in the newborn baby stage.

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corrie January 16, 2010 at 9:27 am

cuuuuuuuuuuuuuute and what lovely friends you are making! I have some wonderful friends I've made through my kids and I love them! I did wonder how you got so much done with twins and good to see you live in the real world juggling it all!

Corrie;)

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Darcy P. January 16, 2010 at 7:05 pm

I sometimes feel like an expat in my own country. We seem to move about every year and a half, so just as we start to meet people and get settled we uproot ourselves and start all over. It is such a nice feeling to know people and have a community. I'm glad to hear you guys are settling in down there. Hopefully this darn economy will give us a break and we too can find a place to truly call home.

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elley February 13, 2010 at 5:15 pm

I wish my daughter would make some freinds..

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